sexreeducated:

“Drinking and drugs make sex much more fun.”


REALITY: If you’re drunk or high, it’s hard to make good decisions about sex. 20% of 15- to 17-year-olds say they have done something sexual while using alcohol or drugs that they might not have done if they were sober. It might seem fun to have your…

Story time: I had sex once (or twice) with Number One while he was high. He claimed that high sex was the best sex, for whatever reason. I’ve never been high, so I wouldn’t know. Anyway, I didn’t like it when he was high - he would be quiet and keep to himself most of the time. It was pretty boring watching him smoke and sit there. I didn’t like the smell of it - or worse, the taste of it - on him either. But the one thing I noticed about him when he was high was that his eyes looked gorgeous. I mean full-out panty-dropping gorgeous. I never understood why, but I appreciated it. 

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I have the perfect outfit to ambush my boyfriend in

when he comes to visit me. I just can’t decide if I should wear it and have him come all the way up to my room before I jump him, or if I should wait and sneakily put it on and seduce him one night.

Hmm…thoughts?

Experiment

While the boyfriend and I are apart, we decided to do an experiment. I’ve read lots of stuff about how to make cum taste better, and I’ve never been a fan of the taste of cum  (sometimes I swallow to make him happy, but when I do I always try to swallow as fast as possible so it wouldn’t linger in my mouth), so I proposed to S that we try out these diets to see if they actually work.

He has agreed to cut down on his consumption of alcohol, coffee, red meat, fish, and dairy while increasing the amount of vegetables and fruits that he eats. He’s also buying celery and pineapple juice. I’ve agreed to do the pineapple juice thing as well since it supposedly works for women as well. 

And in a couple of weeks or whenever we see each other again, we’ll test it out and report back with the results. I’m excited…it’s going to be a fun reunion ;)

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Men who want to flirt with women have to realize: Women live in a state of continual vigilance about sexual safety. It’s like having a mild case of hay fever that never goes away. It’s not debilitating. You’re not weak. You’re not afraid. You just suck it up and get on with your life. It’s nothing that’s going to stop you from making discoveries, or climbing mountains, or falling in love. Sometimes you can almost forget about it. It doesn’t mean it’s not there, subtly sucking your energy. You learn to avoid situations that make it worse and seek out conditions that make it better.

If a female stranger is wary around you, it is not because she suspects you are a rapist, or that all men are rapists. It’s because a general level of circumspection is what vigilance requires. Don’t take it personally.

If this frustrates you, try to remember that women are blamed for lapsed vigilance. If a woman does get raped, everyone rushes to see where she let her guard down. Was she drinking? Was she alone? Was she wearing a short skirt? Did she go to a strange man’s room for coffee at 4am?

A woman must be seen to be vigilant as well as be vigilant. If she is deemed insufficiently vigilant, she will be at least partly blamed for any sexual violence that befalls her. If she’s regarded as downright reckless, that “evidence” can be used to completely exonerate her rapist. If it comes down to a he said/she said dispute over whether sex was consensual, as so many rape cases do, the dispute becomes a referendum on whether the woman seems like the sort of reckless person who would have sex with a stranger.

If a woman does go back to a strange man’s hotel room at 4am, even if she only wants a coffee and conversation, she’s more or less given him the power to rape her. No jury is going to believe she went up there for anything but sex. So, don’t be surprised if a stranger reacts badly to that suggestion.

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Attention, Space Cadets: Do Not Proposition Women in the Elevator

I wish I didn’t need to reblog stuff like this. I wish people *got it*. But judging from the ridiculous response to these posts, stuff like this clearly still needs to be repeated. 

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This actually made me cry. Ugh. 

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Ayyy it’s so boring and lonely here

And on top of that, I’m not having any sex :(

Talk to me!

Sex in a public place: off the bucketlist

It was during finals week, which was surprisingly only two weeks ago (it feels like it’s been forever), and the boyfriend and I were extremely stressed. It was either the Friday or the Saturday before the week of our really hard finals, and we had been studying for them so we didn’t get to have a lot of time together.

We were on our way to one of the university buildings (where they usually hold classes and lectures and whatnot, but at night students go to various buildings on campus to find a quiet and uncrowded place to study), planning to get in an hour or two of studying before relaxing and going out for the night. We had been talking and joking about having sex in one of the classrooms, and somewhere along the line it became a yeah-let’s-seriously-do-this-why-not?” type of thing.

So we find a huge classroom with one of the walls being windows to the outside. S asked me if this would work, and I told him no because people could easily see in.

“Aw come on, no one’s gonna come by here. Besides, we can always turn off the lights.”

I told him that I’d think about it and that we’d do it after studying. Well, during our studying, my fear was confirmed. Some girl knocked on the window and scared the living shit out of me. She was locked out of the building and had left something in the building. She was peering inside the window and saw me, so she knocked to get my attention.

“Yeah, no.”

After we decided that we were done studying, we left that classroom to find a more suitable place. Someplace more remote, where the chance of us getting caught was smaller. While I get that the whole having sex in public appeal IS the chance of getting caught, I did not actually want to be seen having sex and get the police called on me.

We decided on a small carpeted lecture room in the basement. There were doors and small window panes. We decided to do it on top of the table at the front of the room. 

Let me tell you this: I have great admiration for porn actresses who can have sex and fake having fun on these hard table tops. They are definitely NOT comfortable and I realized this almost as soon as we started. I spent most of the session wanting him to finish quickly so that we could stop and leave. I was straddling him cowgirl style because the height of the table wasn’t right for the typical classroom sex position. As a result, my knees hurt the entire time.

Then S suggested that we move to the floor. Thank god. At least the floor was carpeted, if not really really dirty. Ugh ugh ugh. Okay fine. We move to the floor, and I rode him just the way I knew he liked it so he would cum faster. 

“Wait, do you wanna slow down?” Hell no I don’t want to slow down. My knees are already getting carpet-burned! He came, and I was relieved.

It was not nearly as much fun as I thought it was going to be. I totally did not think of the fact that there was no comfy bed and that I’d have to be working with some hard cold table tops and some nasty floors. But we were able to cross something off our bucketlist. I’ve decided that more public sex in the future is not entirely banished, we just have to prepare better and think of better places to do it in.

Oh, and as we were getting ready to leave, we discovered that he had left his buttmark on the table.

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sexualchemistry:

passionatesexx:

I love shower sex (;

I’m also waiting for this to happen!

As awesome as all of this may look, it’s not actually all that comfortable.

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I’m back!

I’m still super busy, but I have a new experience to tell you guys about! Finally crossed something off the sex bucket list. I’ll type it up when I have more time :)

MIA

I’m going to be MIA for a while since I’ve got finals around the corner. But keep sending me questions - I’ll make an effort to log in and answer them :)

Anonymous asked: Question, lets say you are at the store walking and all of a sudden you get a pat in the butt, how would you react? What if i was really attractive, what if i was ugly would it be the same reaction?. Just curious.

I would probably be confused and then tell you to not touch me again. I don’t care how attractive anyone is, if it’s a complete stranger touching me without my consent and without me inviting them to, I’m not going to be too happy.

Anonymous asked: Dude why no nude pics of you? You should post pics of yourself but without showing your face (that's if privacy is a big deal). We are curious what a sex nympho like yourself looks like.

I used to have them up, but I took them down, just for personal/safety reasons.

 Here’s an old one from December: